• Krauerking@lemy.lol
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    7 hours ago

    Its still a shame that I will never recommend this place to anyone I know until the community changes here.

    Its a bit chicken and the egg cause we likely need one for the other. But with the users proclivity for bans, and blocks you end up with a user base even smaller and discussion that more feels like a battle to be right most of the time because intellectual superiority is looked up to rather than conversation.

    I still think a community of people competing to be the most right in every comment section does not lead to actual community and doesn’t even help provide facts or info to most communities when there are not many niches to which people in here can participate in. Objective facts work best not in fandoms but in crafts. Like what glue doesn’t melt Styrofoam when doing prop building not which show or game is best.

    I may be alone in this but I yearn for “the normies”.

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        1 hour ago

        Spend money I don’t have to open myself to attacks for people I already say I dislike that don’t like to told what to do at all.

        No.

      • Alfredolin@sopuli.xyz
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        1 hour ago

        I should host an instance. About Apache. To learn how to do Apache configs. Then I could host an instance.

        Oh wait.

    • Victor@lemmy.world
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      6 hours ago

      a community of people competing to be the most right in every comment section

      I think this depends highly on the type of community. (Although clearly I’m doing it to you right now. Sorry.)

      Highly political topics and such are the worst, probably. But others where people come because of a shared interest, like a sport or food or animal or something, a hobby, I think tend to be more chill and mellow.

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        3 hours ago

        You would think. I still won’t go back to the gardening community. And will probably just stop participating in anything around here.

        The problem is that there is still to few others than those types. The topic seems secondary. The mellow places are where it’s empty.

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          2 hours ago

          Maybe it also depends on the topic. But there are always gonna be annoying people everywhere you go in life. 🥲

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      7 hours ago

      Just keep posting and being the type of person you want to see as a community member here. The other site was exactly like you described above for a very long time!