I think this was asked by someone already, but I do wonder. I think it would be cool if my sister joined the Fediverse (but blocked NSFW content). She is a high school freshman, but I can’t have her join an instance where you must be an adult.
I do have friends on other social medias that are 13+ with their teen siblings making an account to follow them, but what are the rules here??
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I’m going to be real, the Fediverse is not where you want young teens and kids to be. A lot of extreme opinions are floating around, and the Fediverse still has the occasional spamwave which could contain NSFW content.
I suspect this is going to be true of pretty much any publicly accessible social media in general, parental controls built into the app or browser user access controls for censoring, time limits, or keeping them on a family friendly instance seems to be the right move
At least on something like Instagram they’d be around people their age and not a mostly older men demographic posting about politics 24/7 like the Fediverse is.
Mine, sh.itjust.works is 16+.
There’s nothing stopping your sister from just not mentioning her age, but 13 is pretty young for this kind of social media, in my opinion.
Yeah. Our vibe here is kinda dark, and I feel that way as an adult who’se gone through lots of shit. It’s not the most cheery place. Trying to change that a little by little, cuz I love a lot of people here and it’s so unique!
I think you should find a smaller, well moderated instance and show it to your parents first. If they consent with her signing up to it, it should be fine and generally speaking there is no practical way for instances to check the age of their members anyways.
Why do you care?
If it’s just about following the rules as a matter of principle, I suggest not doing that. Nobody is checking, and saying your exact age on public social media is oversharing anyway.
If it’s about content moderation being strict enough to satisfy some comfort level, I wouldn’t rely on that, but I also think 13 is old enough to start learning there are shitty people online and how to deal with them, preferably with some adult support.
There was a user that was revealed to be under 18, maybe they were 16 almost 17, Abe they got banned, by .world (I could be wrong there).
How were they revealed?
if it’s who I think it is, they themselves said so
Was it that one 14 yr old girl?? She was permabanned everywhere.
Maybe, I thought they were older than 14. But I only followed a bit and my aging memory may be failing me.
They may have been 16-17 then. Her?? or no?
Most people will likely agree that 13 is too young, but it kind of depends on her maturity level too. I had unfettered internet access from about that age and I don’t think it messed me up too bad… Lol.
Anyway, I don’t really think there’s many instances, if any, geared towards younger audiences. Maybe Beehaw would be a tamer one to look at?
If I recall correctly beehaw is the one that federates with nearly no one right? If that’s the one I also think that would be most appropriate. They have good moderation and are safe space by design so this would be least problematic.
Not sure, I just know their guidelines are supposed to be more strict in general.
I know lemmy.world ISN’T 13+.
I’m currently unable to find a minimum age requirement on my instance, so she could try that. I’ve never given this topic much thought because Lemmy didn’t exist when I was a minor…
- Why the fuck do you want your 13 y o sister to look at this cesspit of protests and General politics?
- You can just usw any instance, if shes too young she will be banned because they can guess it from her immature posts anyway, and if not no one will care.
In my experience, immature posts are made by people well over 13.
take the one you just replied to, for example.
