I think the person you replied to are a making a joke, suggesting OP wants to solve his problems by hiring a hitman or an assassin. That’s the joke. No hate speech involved in the joke. Then to emphasise it’s just a joke, and that they don’t mean to troll, they actually answer OPs question in a reasonable manner.
I don’t understand, what you mean.
Ranting is something we all need to have sometimes.
Hate-speech is another story.
I think the person you replied to are a making a joke, suggesting OP wants to solve his problems by hiring a hitman or an assassin. That’s the joke. No hate speech involved in the joke. Then to emphasise it’s just a joke, and that they don’t mean to troll, they actually answer OPs question in a reasonable manner.