It happened to me recently at work. I don’t even find her physically attractive, and her personality is not what I’m into at all. But I was still somehow attracted to her - and she also was to me. She didn’t like me, and I certainly am not the kind of man she goes for. It’s like we had a strong connection in one area beneath the subconscious or something, but every other area was completely incompatible. Aggressively so.

Anyone else have anything similar?

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    When I was in the Marines we had an assignment where I was in a small group of men and there was one woman with us. She was a great Marine but probably one of the most manly and dogged women I have ever met. She could probably put me through a brick wall easily. Hopefully you get the type I’m referring too.

    Anyways nobody was into her at first but after a few weeks a couple of the guys started getting into fights over who was going to “get with her first”.

    I think it’s situational but if you’re “hungry enough” you start making exceptions to what you previously said no too.

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      Sadly I think this might be a big part of it. I’m glad I posted because now I have a clearer understanding. Cheers.