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Cake day: July 15th, 2023

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  • watch you really wanna do is get several thick quilts. the heavier, the better. get some rope and make a tent fort in the living room. then get a bunch of white noise generators- set them next to the tent wall, or maybe hang them along the wall.

    Then get more quilts and build a second tent just outside the first. This should stop most screaming but for the existential terror screams, you might want a second layer.

    (also great for playing with nephews and nieces.)





  • So, as someone who’s been cheated on… I can say with certainty that I would never be able to be intimate or vulnerable with my ex. I’m not talking about sex. I’m talking about actual intimacy. It takes trust, and that trust has been broken.

    I wouldn’t give an absolute “don’t do it” because everyone is different and every relationship is unique, and I certainly wouldn’t chime in without being asked, but I doubt very much the relationship you have now will ever be what you had before.

    It doesn’t really matter what you do, or how you’ve changed. The thoughts will still be there, insidiously causing doubt.












  • If there’s comparable oceans, tides would get a bit chaotic. Unless they’re pretty much balancing themselves out- their orbits would basically have to be circular and their mass balanced with their barycenters all in the same place. If the orbits are different (which is almost certainly true), then the tides get weird fast. (Think like super tides where all the moons are in alignment.)

    Also the moons would muck about with things like satellites orbiting, and probably have chaotic orbits themselves as they push and pull on each other. (For example the moon doesn’t have a stable gravity field, as satellites orbit it, it pulls them out of neat orbits.)

    2 suns would depend on a few things- how far and what stellar type? Is it a relatively stable binary or is one ingesting the other?

    If they’re fairly stable and not spitting out angry stellar winds, and your planet is in the Goldilocks zone, your seasons would get whonky, especially if you orbit both stars or you mostly orbit one star and get pulled around in whonky ways by the second.

    You can have some really weird shaped (and stable!) orbits that would change seasons and day night cycles in some ways. (You could even have an orbit that’s just in a line, bouncing between them, or bean-shaped orbits, etc. random loops added in when your planet gets too close.)

    The chaotic orbits might strip moons off (and maybe they come back.)

    You might have weird religions.