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    9 months ago

    This isn’t about guys’n’gals.

    This is simpky about how people work:

    If your peers (friends, colleagues, family) have an opinion (any opinion), their default expectation is that you share that opinion - this is what being a peer is mostly about.

    You can demonstrate solidarity by agreeing - this is virtually always the safe option.

    You can demonstrate backbone by disagreeing - this can generate respect or animosity.

    You can refuse to weigh in - this is mostly a middle ground between the two above.

    How it actual shakes out in reality will depend on a myriad of factors, many of which you’re not even consciously aware of.

    Thus, this random internet stranger can give you only three pieces of advice:

    • Trust your instincts on how to handle this. Your subconscious is very well wired to navigate social situations as best as possible.

    • If you ever change your opinion or “change your opinion”, announce it clearly and give/make up a reason. People disrespect people who are inconsistent, but they respect people who can admit to mistakes / learn.

    • Sometimes, you can’t win. Sometimes, someone will be pissed off, no matter what you do. It’s no fault of yours, some situations are just not salvageable to begin with.







  • I had something vaguely similar happen to me.

    We got called out of the line for a manual luggage inspection because, as a surprisingly bored security agent informed us, X-ray showed a knife of about a foot length in our luggage.

    We had no idea what they were talking about.

    We were half-way through unpacking the whole pack when my SO lit up and asked “could it be my ice skates?”

    Agent took a look at the X-ray, nods, and lets us pack it back up without any further checking.

    Overall, turned out harmlessly, but the sheer confusion of where that supposed knife had come from, combined with how blasé that security person was about the whole affair from start to finish stuck in my mind.




  • My take:

    Most things (especially abstract ones) that exists beyond the scope of the small-hunter-gatherer-tribe setup our brain is developed for: Quantum mechanics, climate change, racism, relativity, spherical earth, …

    What separates us from the dogs is that we’ve developed abstract analytical tools (language, stories, mathematics, the scientific method,…) that allow us to infer the existence of those things and, eventually try to predict, model and manipulate them.

    But we don’t “grasp” them as we’d grasp a tangled leash, which is why it is even possible for medically sane people to doubt them.

    I’d argue that you can even flip this around into a definition:

    If a person with no medical mental deficiencies can honestly deny a fact (as in: without consciously lying), then that fact is either actually wrong, or it falls into the “tangled leash” category.



  • That’s a fairly good point, but I’d argue that it’d depend on how subtle the application of your superpower is.

    My overall assumption would be that any application that doesn’t raise red flags will probably require enough work and moderation that it’d be more like a job - but it could be a very well-paying job.

    I.e. for the time freeze: You could acquire a well-paid reputation as a freelancer troubleshooter for a certain type of WFH desk job (analyst? translator?) that can finish any overdue project in record time. Or, easier, become a stage magician.

    You’d probably still eventually wind up in a situation where you watch some sort of unacceptable crisis on the news and think “well, I could do something about this” - be it removing a mass-murdering dictator or dismantling a hostage situation.


  • I genuinely believe it’d depend on the person.

    First: Most people who use cheats in video games eventually either stop using them or stop playing the game altogether, because it gets boring.

    Many people who win the lottery get a bit of splurging out of their system, then invest the rest into financial security but keep living their loves mostly like before.

    So there genuinely might be some people who will eventually settle into just fixing their most glaring problems and then just keep living “regularly”, possibly with the occasional minor indulgence.

    Then there’s people who are willing to go to extreme lengths to enforce their beliefs even without superpowers - imagine super-powered criminals and terrorists, but also super-powered firefighters, doctors or scientists.

    And then there’s everything in between.

    So, if it’s just one (or maybe five) people getting superpowers, it’d probably be a roll of the dice. Maybe there’d just be one person going through life easier. Maybe we’d get lucky and someone solves a major problem for us. Maybe we get unlucky and every president that doesn’t reinstate segregation gets assassinated.

    If it’s more people getting powers… well, there’s already a lot of fiction exploring that in-depth.



  • Whatsapp is encrypted. The problem is the Metadata they want - i.e. your whole address book.

    I do not agree to Facebook having my phone number, but if you use WA and have my number, they have it, too - even if I don’t use WA myself.

    If you can convince your family to switch, use Signal or Matrix.

    Otherwise, use Shelter on your phone with a limited, WA-ony address book.