The day I moved in there were broken beer bottles, cigarette butts, and syringes all over the floor.

The bathroom didn’t have a door and you could see into the shower from the window on the front door. There was no shower head when I moved in.

Water sometimes just didn’t work.

One day one of the lights on the ceiling started smoking, then filled up with water from a leak from the ceiling.

The rent was great though…

Okay, good for you…

But just because you gave up drugs doesn’t change what you did. We all own our mistakes for the rest of our lives.

People don’t owe you trust or respect if you break those things. Maybe you can build those things up again with the other people in his life but that takes time.

Also, no. you cheated on him. Most good girlfriends don’t cheat on their partners… What do you expect? Most people think cheating is a shitty thing to do.

Yeah, can’t believe all his friends don’t want him to get back with a cheating drug addict.

People are capable of change, sure, but after showing a pattern of behaviour where you show getting off with someone other than your partner is more important to you than the respect you have for your partner and maintaining that relationship, why should anyone involved trust or care about what you have to say on the matter?

And from all your responses here, it seems like you are really trying to justify cheating and are giving excuses to treating your partner like shit.

Take some responsibility, own your mistakes, and try to be a better person, not get angry at people for what YOU did to YOUR partner.

Tough question but I’d say ODESZA is my favourite band. Never seen them live though!

I think the band I have seen most live is The Aggrolites, maybe 4 times.