• Agent641@lemmy.world
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    Brits ofen say “You alright?” As a substitute for “Hi.”

    Pretty jarring when you’re not used to it. Id think “God, I must look like shit if they’re genuinely checking on my welfare!”

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      Yeah Tom Scott did one of his linguistics videos about that, he had a word for it but some questions aren’t really questions they’re basically just rituals, though rephrased a different way makes them genuine questions, and when you have major dialects of the “same” language like British and American English, we use different ones. “Are you alright?” is basically a noise of greeting in Britain and an expression of genuine concern in America, while “How are you?” is the reverse.

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        Chinese version 你吃了吗 or variations on that, although it’s not used so much anymore. Literally means “have you eaten”, except it doesn’t really require an answer. I imagine it came up in that video, but it’s a good one.

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          Literally means “have you eaten”, except it doesn’t really require an answer.

          Grandmothers in every culture

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      When I moved to London, I remember the old lady at the laundromat addressing me as “love”

      I was like: “Damn, over here my charm even works with old ladies”

      As it turns out, calling somebody “love” it’s just a way of addressing people in some English regions.