• flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz
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    2 days ago

    As someone who went poverty -> comfortable -> not so well off, I can confirm. It was (mentally) easier to get up from the bottom than to deal with the loss and try to do it all over again and risk even further loss.

    As the old curse says - May you have and then not have.

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      2 days ago

      I married a trust fund kid and then got saddled with his credit card debt after he dumped me.

      Got to go on nice expensive vacations, ate ridiculous food on the top of Harrod’s in London. Now I’m making pillows out of old t-shirts because I don’t have a mattress.

      The big lesson I learned is that it actually does not matter how smart, talented or hard working you are. It’s about having rich family.

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      Tom Wolfe said that if a person goes from middle class to homeless in a shelter their life changes 50%. They still have the same clothes, watch the same TV shows, eat the same kind of food.

      If someone goes from being a billionaire to middle class their life has changed 100%.