• MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca
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    5 months ago

    sometimes people just ask if I didn’t sleep well last night if I don’t.

    I’ve heard this is a thing.

    I’m a dude, I never sleep well. Anytime I look in the mirror, I can certainly tell that I didn’t sleep well, but I’m almost never asked about it.

    I went for a sleep study earlier this year, I’m meeting with a doctor to discuss the findings in a couple of weeks. Hopefully I can get better sleep soon…

    Even with that being said, it would be nice if someone cared enough to ask about it. At the same time, I can also see that getting asked that question a bunch, regardless of how well you slept, would be pretty annoying.

    IDK. Everyone asks what I’m doing, never how I’m doing. It’s fine. I survive.

    • Flying Squid@lemmy.worldM
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      5 months ago

      I can certainly tell that I didn’t sleep well, but I’m almost never asked about it.

      But you’re probably also not told things like how you should smile more any time you don’t look cheery enough.

      Man’s appearance just gets criticized less than women’s appearance.