• AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppet@lemmy.world
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    27 days ago

    That doesn’t explain why people have done it on Craigslist since before Facebook existed, where they have to open an email client, type it out, and send it.

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      27 days ago

      Because they assume that the seller is not The Perfect Human and remembers removing the ad once they’ve sold the thing?

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        26 days ago

        Sure, sometimes people leave ads open after the item is no longer available. But only asking if it’s available is still an obnoxious waste of time. The first message from a potential buyer should have something useful in it. Further contact info, meetup availability, clarifying questions, an offer if the price isn’t firm, etc.

        Maybe lead with, “If this is still available, blah blah blah” if it makes the buyer feel better. The buyer probably has all that in mind when they decide to contact the seller anyway, so they can take 30 seconds to include it in the first message and actually get the process moving instead of holding it up for a one-word reply from the seller.

        If you buy enough items that stale ads are actually taking up a meaningful amount of your time, then copy-paste as needed.